Thanks for your response Lane.
I understand as people, we talk to others, to learn, to grow, and a little flirtation is not harmful,. When does flirting become dangerous? I mean, what’s the safe zone and what isn’t? What are the boundaries? I think the problem is that nobody has the exact same definiton or anything. Maybe my boyfriend or other guys/girls think s/he’s not doing anything wrong by exchanging messages here and there with someone of the opposite sex, or maybe they do.
I’m not going to lie, I honestly don’t trust him, because I’ve caught him lying before. I know, why am I in a relationship with someone I don’t trust? That’s what I’m trying to figure out as well. I’m just devastated.